Do you feel like you and your spouse are simply coexisting?

Would you like to feel more connected to your spouse?

Would you like for your marriage to be stronger?


Life is full of transitions that can cause our relationships to get off track. Children, moves, career changes, increased responsibilities at home and/or work-these are things that can affect the amount of work and attention we are giving our marriage. It does not necessarily mean that your marriage is in trouble or that there is something wrong when your relationship is not where you want it to be. This stage holds a huge potential for growth and change. When people are proactive and take advantage of this opportunity for marital fulfillment, they can avoid the problems festering and becoming seemingly insurmountable.

When I worked as a therapist, I did not enjoy doing marital therapy. So often couples counseling consists of clients assigning blame and emotionally unloading on the other. The couple leaves without a plan in place and comes back the next week to do the same thing. I rarely saw much lasting progress in the traditional therapy model for couples.

The couples coaching model I utilize is extremely different. It is based on the assumption that a successful marriage does take a lot of skill and effort. The effort does not have to be painful though and can in fact be enjoyable. My couples coaching programs are goal directed and action oriented based on the mutual goals you and your spouse develop. We explore what you would like your relationship to look like. What would it mean for you to be more connected? What would it look like to be on each other's high priority list? What would it mean to rekindle passion in your marriage? Once that clarity is achieved, you are provided with strategies, tools, skills, and an action plan to get your relationship exactly where you would like it to be.

 Through Couples Coaching you will learn how to implement these key strategies: 

1. Develop a shared vision for your marriage
2. Identify self-defeating beliefs, behaviors, and other obstacles to achieving such vision
3. Choose your priorities, don't let them choose you
4. Look at yourself and what you can do to achieve your goal. Let your spouse focus on what he/she can do to achieve the goal.

Coaching is provided over the phone so there are no geographical limitations. Contact me today for a complimentary consultation to learn how to start moving forward in a positive direction with your spouse.